Pospravljanje: ponedeljek
Kot zanalašč, je spodaj nekaj postov, kjer se piše o osebni urejenosti in garderobi.
Kakšno naključje!!!!
Jutri (v ponedeljek) bomo začele s pregledovanjem zakaj ne moremo zapreti omar. Ni treba pregledati vseh omar. To je naloga, ki jo bomo ponavljale dnevno toliko časa, dokler ne bodo pospravljene vse omare. Vsak dan nekaj.
Ali res potrebujemo 30 parov spodnjic? Potrebujemo približno 7 spodnjic za redno vsakodnevno menjavo in recimo 7 spodnjic za “tiste dni”.
Ali res potrebujemo 10 modrčkov?
Ali res potrebujemo 20 parov kratkih nogavic?
Ali res potrebujemo 20 spodnjih majic? …..
Odstranimo vsa oblačila iz “suhih dni”, ki jih že nekaj elt ne moremo obleči. Le zakaj jih hranimo?
Odstranimo tudi vsa oblačila, ki so nam prevelika ali so razvlečena, da z njimi skrijemo tistih nekaj odvečnih kilogramov. Zavedati se moramo, da naša telesa niso smetnjak, da ga pokrivamo z “vrečami”.
Prva stvar je, da imamo radi vsak delček svojega telesa, kakršenkoli je že. In bodimo ponosne nanj, saj je edinstveno!
Iz omare odstranite VSE, kar ni primerno za nošenje!
ODVRZIMO OBČUTEK KRIVDE IN SRAMU. LE TAKO SE BOMO POČUTILE DOBRO!
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In spet se začne:
– družinski dve minuti
– perilo v koš ali stroj
– vroče cone
– zvečer prazno pomivalno korito
Nataša
PS: Original je tokrat zelo obsežen:
Dear Friends,
As we are tackling our Laundry Quandry this week; we need to look at where all those clothes come from. Do you think that we may have too many. This is why we put off doing laundry till Mount Washmore takes over our laundry room. In order to get the laundry put away you are going to have to declutter at least one drawer per family member.
When a job seems too hard we put it off: Putting clothes away is tough because there is no place to put them. Our closets are over flowing and you can’t put another shirt in the drawers. No wonder you put it off! Let’s look at what all those clothes are saying to us on a daily basis.
Our journey through life starts with our first breath and it ends with our last one. Since our birth we have packed many bags for our trip. We are born naked but then we have to put clothes on our bodies. These clothes tell our history; from the baby shoes we took our first steps, to the dress we wore to the prom, our wedding dress and then to the pregnant clothes we wore when we gave birth. I’ll wager that your closet recounts many of the chapters of your life.
Our closets are filled to over flowing. Each time we open our closet door we have a conversation with those clothes. If the truth be known we actually wear only a few items in our closet. The rest are there to beat us up and pretend to rescue us. Our clothes have a way of making us feel bad.
**** think about your wedding dress that no longer fits your body.
What are your first thoughts? How could I let this happen to me? I looked so good that day. Then I want you to think about how you starved yourself to death to fit into that dress in the first place.
Why do we do this to ourselves? Why can’t we **** be happy with ourselves **** like we were? We were trying to fit into an unrealistic picture that only stays with us for that fleeting moment.
Those nasty conversations go on each time you walk into your closet.
If it isn’t about a wedding dress it is about another favorite outfit that you paid good money for that is too tight. It is time for us to quiet these beratings and get on with our flight without feeling guilty.
There is an easy way to banish these voices from your head; get them out of your closet and only keep items of clothing that you absolutely adore and feel like a million buck in when you wear them.
Decluttering your closet is not going to kill you; in fact it may **** save your life.
It is time we packed for our journey. Our closets are no longer going to stand in our way of traveling light and enjoying our trip.
Most of us only wear about 10{04cafd300e351bb1d9a83f892db1e3554c9d84ea116c03e72cda9c700c854465} of the clothes we have stashed in there anyway. Let’s lighten our load and get rid of those nasty voices once and for all; Out of sight, out of mind! We can do this.
First we need to look at the clothes we truly love because we feel good in them. This goes for your shoes too. Pull those out of your closet one at a time and think about the words you hear in your head when you have them on. Now put them back in your closet and pull out something that does not give you the same feeling. If the item of clothing makes you feel bad, evokes feelings of guilt in you or you **** don’t like it; then put it in the give-away box. If you have changed careers and no longer have to get dressed into suits then donate them so others can start their new jobs and look nice. Let me warn you. Going through your closet is difficult because of all the stories that you clothes dredge up. This is why I only want you to spend 15 minutes at a time doing this. Do not spend hours this will make you feel too badly. Bless yourself by being kind to you.
Over the next few weeks of spending 15 minutes a day culling the clothes that do not bless you any longer, you will begin to see a pattern to your favorite items. I call it our personal uniform. We all have a favorite color, fabric or style that makes us smile. Look at your clothes with an eye for your style. I love denim and black with splashes of primary colors for accent. My wardrobe revolves around this theme. In the summer I love cool dresses and in the winter I love blazers. It is all about what you love and how you feel when you wear your clothes.
Now let’s build our wardrobe starting with our foundations.
Under pants- 7 pair that you love and 7 pair for that time of the month. I like light colors and dark colors. So I can look good and feel good under my clothes.
Bras- I have 5 bras. One black one, a natural color one and 3 that are fun colors.
Slips- If you wear dresses or skirts you will need two slips: One
black and one light.
Socks- I wear socks every single day. In the summer I wear thin
white ones with my tennis shoes. In the winter I wear black or
bright colors. I have 7 pairs of white and 7 assorted primary
colors.
Panty hose- I mostly wear black hose, but in the summer I wear
natural color if I wear them at all. I keep 3 pair of black ones on
hand at all times and 3 pair of natural ones. This way I don’t have
to run to the store to purchase them in order to travel.
Tights- This is my favorite clothing in the winter. I have two black
pair, a grey pair and a purple pair. I wear them around the house
and under my jeans if it is cold and then all I have to do is throw
on a jumper to go out of the house.
Pants/slacks/jeans- I have a pair of good black wool slacks for
dressy occasions and a pair of light weight black fabric for summer.
I have a black pair of jeans and 2 pair of blue jeans that I wear
most of the time. I also have a pair of tan pants or kakis.
Skirts- I have one black wool winter skirt, a kakis skirt and a
black light weight skirt for summer. I also have a fun floral summer
skirt. Since I love denim, I have two denim skirts and full one and
a straight one.
Dresses- I have a simple black dress with a jacket for those formal
occasions. I have a bright red dress for my power meetings and a
printed black dress for business. I have two denim dresses, one with
a jacket and one with long sleeves. In the summer I love cool short
sleeved linen dresses. I have them in black, kakis, green and red.
These are my everyday dresses that I wear around the house. I feel
great in them and my tennis shoes go nicely with them.
Jumpers- One of my favorite things to wear in the winter to layer up
is my jumpers. I have a blue corduroy, a denim and a black wool
jumper.
Blazers- My favorite is my black blazer. I wear it for business. I
also have a grey blazer that can dress up a pair of jeans. For
summer I have a red light weight blazer and a yellow one.
Blouses These are dressy, I have a red, white and leopard print.
(silky fabric)
Shells- I have black, white, and red. (synthetic)
Sweaters- Black long sleeved cardigan with a matching shell and tan,
black and cream striped one to mix and match. I love cotton sweaters
in the summer and winter. I have hot pink, yellow and royal blue.
T-shirts. I have black, purple, white, yellow, and red.
Sweat shirt- I have one navy blue one
Coats- one black trench coat and a winter dress coat.
All of these clothes fit me and I feel wonderful in them. My closet
is not crammed so full that I can’t see the forest for the trees. I
have my skirts, blouses, pants, shells and dresses all hanging by
item. My sweaters are in a drawer along with my jeans and t-shirts.
Now don’t be tempted to hang on to your skinny clothes because you
are planning on losing weight. How long have they been hanging in
your closet anyway? It is time to release that guilt and pain and
only surround yourself with clothes that treat you nicely.
Now for those fat clothes that you use as a shield to hide your body
from you and the world. Let go of those cover up clothes that are
too big and baggy. Your body is not trash so quit trying to conceal
your shame in clothes that look like garbage bags. You don’t have to
be ashamed of your body; that is what FLYing is all about. Loving
every part of you is your first step to getting rid of the body
clutter. When you love yourself you will not allow the guilt and
shame to make you feel bad.
Feeling bad triggers the kick off of the vicious cycle of consoling
yourself with your drug of choice FOOD. Then you feel even worse for
stuffing your face with food instead of expressing how you really
feel. Our perfectionism keeps us hiding behind those baggy clothes
and gives us a defeated attitude because we are not willing to take
babysteps. That all or nothing mentality is pulling us down before
we can even begin our new way of thinking. Let go of the
perfectionism and find yourself FLYing, instead of tossing the baby
out with the bath water over one little goof.
Are you ready to FLY with fewer clothes piling up in the laundry
room?
Less is More: More time doing other things beside laundry.
FlyLady
Uf Nataša, zdaj si me pa dobila…
Pri spodnjem perilu sem nepoboljšljiva…namreč obožujem spodnje perilo, tako da tle bo bolj malo redukcije…
Zanimivo, sem se pa ravno tam nekje pred enim mesecem odločila počasi metat določene kose garderobe iz moje omare, ker jih enostavno ne nosim več. Končno sem dobila en preblisk, da moram naredit korak dalje in izločit določene kose, ki so v moji omari še iz najstniških let…pa kaj morem če sem čustveno navezana na določene obleke. Počasi napredujem, saj veš tle je treba ubrati počasno varianto, da ne bodo rane prehude ;-))))))))))
Pa kako lepo se človek včasih dobro počuti v stari 1000krat oprani in razvlečeni majici….:-)))))))))))
Ah, počasi bo bolje….
lp in hvala!!!
Pati
Ej, Nataša, sam ne nehaj!! Mene je tudi prijelo in sledim tvojim navodilom že cel teden. Ogledala sem si tudi Fly stran. Nekatere ženske imajo že ta sistem, jaz se ga moram še priučiti. Zaenkrat funkcionira. Danes imam v ogromnem prtljažniku avta že polno stvari za podarit(več kot 27 kosov).
Ha, ha – moje pomivalno korito se vsak večer sveti kot novo. Prva stvar, ki jo zjutraj naredim v kuhinji, je nasmeh ob zadovoljstvu, kaj najdem tam.
Noro. Hvala.
By the way – kupila sem si že Acto – in si urejam svoj sistem dela.